Habits
by BJ Fogg
What will you actually do?
BJ Fogg, a Stanford researcher who has spent decades studying how people change, starts by turning a vague wish into a few small, specific behaviours you'll really repeat.
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Fogg takes one aspiration, say sleeping better, and has you list every specific behaviour that might help. Leave the phone in the kitchen. Read a novel in bed. Stop coffee after noon. He calls this a swarm of behaviours, and it turns a hope into a menu.
From the swarm, Fogg picks golden behaviours. Each one helps with the aspiration, is something you want to do, and is something you can do. He sorts the options on a Focus Map, by impact and by how likely you are to do them. The winners sit high on both.
When a behaviour isn't happening, Fogg asks what is making it hard to do. He lists five things that can get in the way: time, money, physical effort, mental effort and how well it fits your routine. Whichever is weakest holds the rest back, so fix that one first.
Fogg finds that a tiny habit, done daily, tends to grow and multiply. Two press-ups turn into ten on the days you feel like it. Each small win also changes how you see yourself, as someone who follows through, and that makes the next habit easier to start.
When we act
Fogg says you act when motivation, the ability to do it and a prompt all meet at the same moment.
Motivation
Motivation comes and goes, so don't build a habit that needs lots of it.
Go tiny
Make the new habit tiny, like flossing one tooth, so it's easy to do on any day.
Anchor
Tie it to a routine you already have, like brushing your teeth, and let that be the reminder.
Celebrate
Right after you do it, celebrate with a small cheer or a smile. That good feeling wires it in.
A story from the book
Fogg's own recipe for getting stronger was almost silly. After he used the loo, he did two press-ups. It was too small to skip, even on a bad day, and on good days he did more. The habit grew until press-ups were simply part of his day.
Hot take · true or myth?
If a habit keeps failing, you just need more willpower.
Myth. Fogg treats a habit that keeps failing as a badly designed one. Make it smaller, or tie it to a better moment in your day.
One thing to try
Pick one aspiration, like being calmer at work. Write ten specific behaviours that might help, however small. Circle one you'd like to do and could do tomorrow. Shrink it until it takes under thirty seconds, then decide which daily moment it will follow.
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Get the whole book on KnotdOpen in the appWhat will you actually do? BJ Fogg, a Stanford researcher who has spent decades studying how people change, starts by turning a vague wish into a few small, specific behaviours you'll really repeat.
A swarm of behaviours; Golden behaviours; What's making it hard?; Tiny habits grow.
Pick one aspiration, like being calmer at work. Write ten specific behaviours that might help, however small. Circle one you'd like to do and could do tomorrow. Shrink it until it takes under thirty seconds, then decide which daily moment it will follow.
Yes. Knotd has the key ideas from Tiny Habits in a few minutes, in plain words, plus a Hot Take round and a Name That Idea round to test them. It's one of 250+ non-fiction books in the app.
